Have you had to learn the hard way the subtle art of knowing whether a guy is into you or not? Most lessons stick better that way. When you’re dating after a breakup, this little piece of knowledge is going to help you in weeding out the ones that don’t appreciate you and, as a result, not worth more of your time.
Make sure you keep a sharp eye out. There are multiple signs that guys don’t realize they give out. Signs that can tell you that he wants to know you more. All you need is to see if those signs exist, and if they do, a second date most probably is in the bag.
First sign he’s into you is if he invites discussion. Not a heated debate, but a nice exchange of ideas and experiences. If he’s only answering whatever question you throw, and he’s not volunteering anything about him, then the signal he’s sending is he’s not interested in you. However, if he asks you to talk more about yourself, and tells you about himself as well, then he probably wants to take you out again.
Another sign that he’s really into you is that he leans in closer when you’re talking. This lets you know he’s really interested in what you have to say. It’s an even bigger indicator than participating in the conversation. Body language often speaks louder than words. Listen to what his body is telling you and go with the flow if you’re feeling a little interest on your side.
Third sign you might want to check is if he looks you in the eye. If a guy is not at all interested, he’ll be looking at everything and everyone else but you. However, if the other two signals exist except for the look-you-in-the-eye part, then he might just be shy or nervous. Don’t take it the wrong way and try to encourage him. But if you see all the three signs present – he likes talking to you, he leans when you talk, and he maintains eye contact – then you’re sure to have a second date.
Now here are two signs you don’t want to see him give out during a first date – signs he’s not into you and would rather go home.
1. There’s nonstop ex talk. If a guy can’t stop talking about his ex during a date with a different girl, then he’s either still hung up about the ex, or he’s extremely rude. Either way, you don’t want a second date from this kind of guy. He’s not over the girl and will surely view you as his rebound. Don’t take it personally; he’s just not ready for anything yet.
2. He can’t stop checking his watch every minute or so. Undoubtedly a sure sign that he’s not having as much fun as he should. If he has to know how many seconds have passed since his last check without cease, it just means he’s only waiting for the earliest convenient time to leave.
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